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How to stop your public life from impacting your private love
March 9, 2026

How to stop your public life from impacting your private love

Send a text We talk candidly about leading while single, dating without performance, and building relationships that honor the private self as much as the public role. We share how marriage reshaped leadership boundaries, why fans make poor partners, and how faith and community hold us together. • …

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Your Leadership Style is Effecting Your Dating Life!
March 2, 2026

Your Leadership Style is Effecting Your Dating Life!

Send a text We map real leadership styles onto real relationships, from first dates to family life, and show how to keep strengths from turning into blind spots. We trade hype for honesty, outlining how service, vision, collaboration, and adaptability actually feel day to day. • democratic and serv…

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Stop Pausing Your Life While You Wait For Marriage
Feb. 23, 2026

Stop Pausing Your Life While You Wait For Marriage

Send a text We unpack how single leaders can stop pausing life for marriage, ditch social media comparison, and embrace vulnerability and contentment now. We share money truths, healing tools, and stories that free us from performing a smaller self. • calling out highlight reels and faux honesty on…

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Single In Leadership: I Swiped the Wrong Way And Met My Husband
Feb. 16, 2026

Single In Leadership: I Swiped the Wrong Way And Met My Husband

Send a text We share how choosing a partner as a leader starts with self-knowledge, honest community, and shrinking the list to core values. Ruth Abigail walks through leaving a Velcro situationship, reframing online dating, and finding a partner who frees her to lead. • priorities in early 30s: de…

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If God Is Enough, Who Are You Without Your Resume?
Feb. 9, 2026

If God Is Enough, Who Are You Without Your Resume?

Send a text We question why middle adulthood feels less free and unlearn the idea that single leaders must prove worth through nonstop achievement. We reframe purpose from output to identity, practice shared leadership, and learn to pray like children who bring God everything without polish. • the …

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Escapism, Burnout, and the Unlearning of Rest as a Single Leader
Jan. 26, 2026

Escapism, Burnout, and the Unlearning of Rest as a Single Leader

Send us a text We dig into the rhythms of rest for single leaders, why “always on” culture masks pride and fear, and how Sabbath realigns identity from performance to presence. We name escapism and avoidance, and we offer practices and people that help you take the cape off. • why rest is a command…

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Beyond Reasonable Doubt: Building Relationships that Endure (The Second Act)
Jan. 19, 2026

Beyond Reasonable Doubt: Building Relationships that Endure (The Seco…

Send us a text A faith-filled love story moves from a college class pairing to a covenant tested by recession, a house fire, and an autism diagnosis, and rises into purpose as two attorneys build a family and a firm rooted in prayer. We close our season with gratitude, hard-won clarity, and a livin…

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Second Act: Pressing Into Purpose and How to Navigate Changing Seasons
Jan. 12, 2026

Second Act: Pressing Into Purpose and How to Navigate Changing Seasons

Send us a text We map the journey from porch rules and legacy expectations to a crash that rewrote the plan, then to a comeback that finished the old vision and opened a bigger calling. Faith reframes pressure as privilege, and mentorship becomes a lifelong vow to build others. • growing up third i…

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The Second Act: When God’s Light met my Darkness
Jan. 5, 2026

The Second Act: When God’s Light met my Darkness

Send us a text We trace Mikayla’s journey from crowns and depression to surrender, purpose and a swift second act marked by peace, service and marriage. A locked door opens, a pill bottle vanishes and a new life begins as we unpack belonging, exposure and the power of a full yes to God. • small-tow…

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Second Act: What To Do When You’re Called Up Front!
Dec. 16, 2025

Second Act: What To Do When You’re Called Up Front!

Send us a text We trace Catina Parrish Clark’s journey from insurance to education to chaplaincy and pastoring, exploring how obedience, formation, and care shape a faithful second act. We share honest lessons on leaving the familiar, guarding your soul, and leading from presence with people. • sal…

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The UnLearnT Podcast LIVE: Enduring Leadership
Nov. 17, 2025

The UnLearnT Podcast LIVE: Enduring Leadership

Send us a text We go live to name the weight of leading through hard seasons and offer practical ways to endure with hope, clarity, and integrity. We unpack how to recover from mistakes faster, re-categorize relationships, and reinvest in the vision without burning out. • defining enduring leadersh…

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What's Your Leadership Style: Unlearning Situational Leadership
Oct. 27, 2025

What's Your Leadership Style: Unlearning Situational Leadership

Send us a text We explore situational leadership with clear lines between crisis control and season-long guidance, naming the hero trap, burnout, and how to build trust, culture, and vision by developing people. Practical tools include better questions, motivation cues, and when to let safe balls d…

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What’s Your Leadership Style: Unlearning Transformational Leadership
Oct. 20, 2025

What’s Your Leadership Style: Unlearning Transformational Leadership

Send us a text We unpack transformational leadership through real stories, moving from identity and belief to sustainable action. We name the strengths, blind spots, and boundaries that keep charisma ethical and growth-centered. • defining transformational leadership and its core pillars • coaching…

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What's Your Leadership Style?: UnLearning Transactional Leadership
Oct. 13, 2025

What's Your Leadership Style?: UnLearning Transactional Leadership

Send us a text We unpack transactional leadership—why it feels natural, where it works, and when it fails—and show how to pair it with relational styles so people and performance both thrive. Clear goals help, but autonomy, mastery, and purpose keep teams engaged and growing. • definition of transa…

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What's Your Leadership Style?: Unlearning Servant Leadership
Oct. 6, 2025

What's Your Leadership Style?: Unlearning Servant Leadership

Send us a text We rethink servant leadership, tracing how values shape style, when closeness empowers, and where boundaries keep service from becoming control. We compare servant and transformational modes, test historical examples, and offer practical pivots for sustainable leadership. • values dr…

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Unlearning Your Leadership Style: Laissez-Faire
Sept. 29, 2025

Unlearning Your Leadership Style: Laissez-Faire

Send us a text We dig into laissez-faire leadership with clear eyes—what it is, what it isn’t, when it helps people soar, and when silence looks like neglect. We share wins, missteps, and the structures that make autonomy safe, from trust and expectations to accountability and pivot points. • defin…

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What You’re Leadership Style?  Unlearning Autocratic Leadership
Sept. 23, 2025

What You’re Leadership Style? Unlearning Autocratic Leadership

Send us a text The autocratic leadership style, often misunderstood but sometimes necessary, provides clear command and control when building something new or navigating through crisis. • Autocratic leadership is marked by a self-appointed, self-governing style where the leader maintains full contr…

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What's Your Leadership Style?: Unlearning Democratic Leadership
Sept. 15, 2025

What's Your Leadership Style?: Unlearning Democratic Leadership

Send us a text We explore the democratic leadership style, examining when this collaborative approach works best and when leaders need to pivot to different styles for effective team management. • Democratic leadership involves consulting with team members and valuing collaboration • This leadershi…

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Unlearning Gen Z in the Workplace w/ Jaquetta Ross
Sept. 9, 2025

Unlearning Gen Z in the Workplace w/ Jaquetta Ross

Send us a text Jaquetta Ross joins us to debunk common misconceptions about Generation Z in the workplace and shares insights from her 12 years of working with this young adult population. • Gen Z is often mischaracterized as entitled, naive, and lacking work ethic when they actually crave mentorsh…

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Unlearning Gen Z: The Secret World of Teenagers with Tanaya (Memphis College Student)
Sept. 1, 2025

Unlearning Gen Z: The Secret World of Teenagers with Tanaya (Memphis …

Send us a text In this candid conversation, host Ruth Abigail speaks with Taniya Adams, a college student she has known since third grade, about the unique challenges and perspectives of Generation Z. • Finding identity amidst social media's influence and the pressure to know your purpose early • L…

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The Life of Gen Z Entrepreneur with Savannah Brister (Spoiler Alert: It’s Not As Easy As Tik Tix Makes it Look
Aug. 25, 2025

The Life of Gen Z Entrepreneur with Savannah Brister (Spoiler Alert: …

Send us a text In this candid conversation, Ruth Abigail welcomes back musician Savannah Brister to discuss the realities of Gen Z, information overload, and navigating creative entrepreneurship in today's digital landscape. • How Gen Z is perceived: either as exciting innovators or as the generati…

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Unlearning Gen Z - Pastor Deon Byers
Aug. 19, 2025

Unlearning Gen Z - Pastor Deon Byers

Send us a text Pastor Deon Byers shares his decade of experience working with Generation Z, revealing what today's youth truly need from adults and how to build meaningful connections that transform lives. • Mentorship matters – Deon’s own life was transformed by an adult who showed him a world bey…

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